Create and Maintain Boundaries [Revisit]

Episode #75

In this episode, we get to revisit a conversation that comes up A LOT with our men…how to create and maintain boundaries.

We divulge some real-life examples we have from the men taking part in our coaching program, the ‘The Activation Method’ and common problems and obstacles they face.

So many people struggle with structure and organization in their business and personal lives because they have failed to create good boundaries. If you have no boundaries or structure your life and business is freewheeling, you will never know what to say yes or no to and you will fall into the trap of people pleasing and other peoples schedules and priorities will run your life instead.

With some really simple techniques, we help you control your boundaries and give structure to each day through planning and keeping boundaries for both business and your personal life.

What you will discover in this episode:

    • How to use free tools like google calendar or ical to create and manage your boundaries.
    • The importance of scheduling time for everything you do.
    • Avoiding people pleasing through boundaries.
    • Making sure your smartphone doesn’t control your day.
    • If you don’t set your own boundaries and schedule, your life will be run by someone else’s.
    • How to give yourself the power to say no.
    • Tim’s typical daily schedule and how it works for his business and personal life.
    • 4 actionable steps to start creating simple boundaries immediately.
    • Controlling the use of your smartphone and learning to turn it off!

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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You’re Not Broken

Episode #74

Something common we experience is men who view themselves as winners and have resistance around joining a personal or businesses development program because they believe that those who attend the program are men who are broken.

Does this belief resonate with you?

These men believe that they must be surrounded only by winners or champions like themselves.

What they are not aware of is the fact that these men who dive into these programs are elite businessmen with high-level performances.  These men want to learn a new skillset for themselves and to uplevel their game…and not because they are broken.

These men go through the program because they desire to learn how to effectively communicate with their loved ones, to build a deeper and more intimate connection, navigate the emotions they are experiencing and express every part of themselves in the world opposite of what the society has instilled to us.

We were taught by society not to cry, not to be happy and we are also told not to be angry because we might hurt people.

We get to strip away what we have been told and show the REAL us because IT IS NOT US WHO IS BROKEN…BUT THE SYSTEM.

We all go through hard times, we may be lacking or we may not be good enough in some aspects but that doesn’t define who we are as a person. You should love yourself, acknowledge and accept your flaws and do the work to improve yourself every day.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • The misconception about men who go through personal/business development
  • What we get by joining personal/business development programs
  • The importance of showing your real emotions and the real you
  • Why successful business owners still go through personal /business development programs

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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What to Do When You Feel Stuck

Episode #73

We only live once…so live a quality life with purpose.

Many of us feel discontented with the life that we have and how much money we make.

We want more and that’s why we hustle to earn more without knowing what we really desire.

We want to earn money without even knowing how much money we actually need and what our goals are.

In this episode, we talk about the importance of reconnecting to who you are and getting clear on what you want.

Know your numbers. You might be hustling for nothing because you might only need less than what you already have in order for you to feel secure and live your dreams.

Do not let society define security for you, define it for yourself because it is your life.

Live a life that is on fire and brings your joy because if you are happy…you will make money easier without even thinking about it.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • What happens if we are too attached to money and security
  • How to know what you really want and how much it will cost you
  • How to get clear on your goals and finding your joy
  • The importance of reconnecting to yourself
  • The importance of surrounding yourself with great mentors
  • How to improve yourself every day

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Are Your Friends Killing Your Business?

Episode #72

Having an employee who is your friend will greatly affect your decision-making when the time comes that you discover that person to be someone who is sabotaging your business.

The attachment or the relationship you have with this person puts you in a situation where it will be difficult for you to get rid of him.

You will become more understanding and you will give him more chances compared to someone who is just your regular employee because you want to protect your relationship and you don’t want to be the bad person.

In this episode, we talk about what happens when we continue to tolerate these people in our lives.

Getting rid of someone who is cancer in the business is protecting yourself, your company, your employees and your relationship.

If you have been in this situation, dive right in to the episode to receive some insight on how to handle the situation.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • How having a friend as your employee affects your decision making
  • How to get rid of a key employee who is sabotaging your business
  • How to save both your business and your relationship
  • What happens if you tolerate someone from doing things that you know will sabotage your business just because you are afraid to ruin the friendship

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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How To Unlock Near Unlimited Personal Power

Episode #71

Do we really have a nearly unlimited personal power?

Imagine you won the lottery. How would you be feeling? You might be jumping up and down, shouting, laughing, screaming and celebrating. You see, that energy already exists in us but we are not aware of it or how we can unlock it.

In unlocking nearly unlimited personal power, the first thing to do is to KNOW WHERE YOU ARE. It’s like a journey from point A to point B. You can’t go to point B without knowing where point A is. You just don’t know if you’re going to be taking a left or a right if you don’t know where you’re starting from.

What also hinders us from unlocking our nearly unlimited power is that we are suppressing our four main emotions which are guilt, shame, anger, and sadness. Take time to identify each and release them. In this episode, Tim and Doug share some exercises on how to do this.

Finally, you must remember WHO YOU ARE. Reinforce the truth of who you really are.

Schedule a call with Tim & Doug to become part of the Activation Method:

https://www.thepowerfulman.com/schedule-call

What you will learn in this episode:

  • How to Unlock Your Nearly Unlimited Personal Power
  • The Fundamentals of an Alpha
  • The 4 Stages on How to Achieve Peace
  • Important Facts About Your Gut Feeling
  • Importance of Doing What Excites, Inspires and Scares You

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Did You Settle When You Married Your Wife?

Episode #70

Settling in a relationship starts by settling within yourself.

Settling for the life you are living and your standard as a man.

We often complain about many things that lack in our relationships and we tend to blame our partners, but in reality, the problem is within ourselves.

The problem is not with the marriage…but with yourself.

In this episode, we talk about HOW to recognize your faults and be aware of what is ACTUALLY happening.

In order to make a change, you need to RAISE YOUR STANDARDS. If you don’t do the work and make the change, you will end up carrying the same pattern into your next relationship.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • Finding your inner peace
  • Raising your standard and stepping up
  • How to settle in a relationship
  • How to settle within yourself
  • Knowing what is really important in a relationship
  • How our behaviors affect or change the behaviors of the people around us.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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How To Win A Divorce

Episode #69

In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about Doug’s conversation with a business owner about a topic on relationships.

This business owner, while revisiting his Amazon Kindle account, found a purchased book entitled “How to Win a Divorce for Women”. Thinking his marriage was going good, spending his time slugging along, working, getting things done, providing for his wife and his three kids, discovering this about his wife who bought a book about how to win a divorce raises a really huge red flag.

Shocking as it may seem, but most men experience this in some ways, shapes or forms. Usually, most men become busy with their day jobs or managing their businesses that they tend to forget how to treat their wives or partners the way they should be treated. To make more money, most men grind and sacrifice many things and that includes their most precious time for their family.

Being more sensitive about your partners or wives will help you notice any negative signals about your relationships and immediately address it. Leading the five territories of your life which are your self, health, relationships, wealth and business will also help you to have a well-balanced life.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • How to achieve a successful and long-lasting marriage or relationship
  • How to address your wife/partner when you find out that she’s thinking of divorce or separation
  • The Five Territories of your life that you need to lead
  • How to have a well-balanced life

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Are you turning into your dad?

Episode #68

Many of us have sworn we would never do things the way our father did…and yet some of those are things we are unconsciously doing.

The things that we were complaining about our father in the past is what we are living right now without realizing it.

These things have become patterns of ours that keep showing up, but we refuse to acknowledge it.

It’s time to break the patterns that are holding us back and create new behaviors that we would be proud to have our own children model.

In this episode, we dive DEEP into the conversation around the patterns we have picked up from our fathers, how that has affected us, how that has affected those around us, and HOW to make the shifts that will free us from these ineffective patterns.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • How your patterns will affect your children in living their lives.
  • How these unchanged patterns lead to broken relationships
  • How to break the patterns we learned from our father and be a model to our children
  • Recognizing the problem and raising your standards
  • Knowing what kind of father you want your children to become someday.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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No Man’s Land

Episode #67

The agony you feel when you start comparing yourself with the man you know you could be can be stopped if you just commit to change.

The idea of change is not as scary as we believed it would be but it is worth taking the risk.

Change your ways.

Stop comparing yourself.

And uplevel your standards in order to be the man you are capable of being.

Don’t be in no man’s land, a situation where you are in between where you are and where you want to be.

We go through agonies, we feel insecure, lonely, empty and we end up sabotaging ourselves. Because of anger, we start pushing our loved ones and sacrificing our relationship until we become lonely and empty.

When shame and guilt build-up, it will result in self-isolation and fueling up the cycle.

You can get out of this situation as long as you are willing to recognize that you are in it and are willing to commit to a change.

Raise your standards, think of what standard you want to pass on to your kids and what kind of man you want to be for the people you love.

Value yourself, invest in your self-improvement and happiness and value the people that you love and step forward.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • Leveling up your standards
  • The importance of committing to change
  • Knowing what you are capable of being
  • Getting rid of the agonies we experience from comparing ourselves to the man we are today to the man we know we could be.
  • Valuing yourself and stepping forward
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The Absentee Father

Episode #66

Providing for your family doesn’t only mean providing financially but also emotionally. We have this unconscious commitment that if we work longer hours, THEN we will be able to provide well for our family’s future.

We keep on grinding, spending too much time in the office for us to be able to give our family the comforts of life but we don’t realize that we are starting to lose connection with them. Our absence creates a gap with our loved ones and we start to feel empty and discontent.

Being a father is not measured by how much money we make but how much time we spend with our children. Step up, be the man, be the leader in the house, support their dreams, share your knowledge and being a good example to them.

Many of us unconsciously believe that without the grind, we become less of a man. Yet, the truth is we don’t really need to become a millionaire for us to be called a good father or a good provider. Our time and presence are what our family actually needs.

Upleveling your mindset will enable you to find a new sense of happiness and contentment. Reconnect to your family and you will see how colorful life becomes. Be a father that you want your children to become in the future.

In this episode we will learn:

  • The importance of time for the family
  • The importance of having a work-play balance
  • How to provide emotionally
  • How to work smarter not harder
  • Knowing and recognizing what your family really needs

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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