Do It Now

Episode #19

How often do you think about things that you want or feel the need to do but put them off?

In this episode, Tim & Doug present another incredibly motivating 30 minutes of audio about how we fall into the trap of procrastinating and putting things off with excuses and lies that we tell ourselves.

“The beggar and the billionaire have the same amount of time in the day” is a quote reference by Tim in this episode to try and explain why we need to stop using time and other things as an excuse not to do things in your life. If your instinct and your subconscious are constantly reminding you to do things it must be with good reason, but if you put them things off all you are doing is damaging yourself, your relationship or your business.

How often do people wait until things are broken to fix them? Discover how you can improve on things by working on them while they are good to break away from the constant cycle of going through bad days to good days, stress and anxiety…Enjoy a life of good days and great days!

Tim explains the process of “Feel – Act – Feedback” instead of “Feel – Think – Think….”

Not acting on your instinct, beliefs, and inspiration causes you to constantly question it to a point where you will scare yourself out of acting. In this episode, Tim & Doug will tell you how, if you act on inspiration NOW, your life will change forever.

What you will discover in this episode:

  • What makes you put things you want to do off
  • How to get over the barrier of putting these things off
  • How your business is directly affected by your procrastination.
  • The BIGGEST change Tim discovered that changed his life.
  • The constant cycle we fall into of being inspired but failing to take full action.
  • How to trust your gut instinct and how it can change everything
  • Actionable exercises to stop procrastinating and start living a more fulfilling life.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Do Less & Be More

Episode #18

In today’s face paced world, it’s so easy to be busy, hustle hustle hustle, go go go. We even measure our success by how busy we are… how often do you tell someone you are busy for them to respond “Great, busy is good”, “I wish I could be busier”. Anyone can be busy, but it’s much harder to be productive…

In this episode Tim shares a story of a business owner who was in hustle mode, working non-stop, living fast and hard but he was also drained and unable to appreciate his success and everything good in his life. His thoughts were telling him things like “you have to take the rough with the smooth” or “Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows”. This is something we can all relate to, phrases we were brought up hearing and have become ingrained in our psyche. Tim argues that this doesn’t have to be the way and asks why can’t we just have the good??

Life CAN be all sunshine and rainbows!!

These 20 minutes of valuable audio will help you discover how you can overcome this kind of negative mentality that can cause you to be so busy you’ll drive yourself into the ground. Tim believes that this train of thought also causes self-sabotage if you tell yourself phrases like “take the rough with the smooth”, then subconsciously you are far more likely to follow something great with something negative and not even realize.

A common theme on The Powerfulman show is that you should “be” and not “do”. Keep listening to find out how you can do less and be more, get ready to snap out of hustle mode and enjoy a much more fulfilling life.

What you will discover in this episode:

    • The Difference between being productive and busy.
    • How your business can be suffering by lies you tell yourself.
    • Actionable steps to becoming more productive in business and life.
    • How to set yourself free of old phrases that are no longer relevant.
    • How to shift your belief systems.
    • How to get closer to your goals by being productive.
    • Operating out of faith and flow not fear and force.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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It’s not the Location

Episode #17

In this episode, Tim & Doug discuss a real-life example of a man they spoke with who felt everything around him was the reason he was unfulfilled. He blamed the location in which he was based, the people and other external factors for all that was wrong in his life, avoiding the real issue, which was himself!

This is a very common occurrence in men that Tim & Doug help on a regular basis. People who don’t take responsibility for themselves and always look to the nearest thing to point the finger of blame. We’ve all met that people who never seem happy in their job/relationship and yet they continuously blame external things… their job, their boss, their partner. It’s not bad luck that puts a person in these circumstances over and over, it’s the person themselves and once they accept that their lives can be changed.

At the end of this episode, Tim & Doug also share a story of how another man who had fallen into the habit of blaming external issues in his business, once he made the realization he saw some immediate changes to his business and turnover.

Until you decide to take responsibility for yourself, you will never be the happiest and reach your full potential. Don’t fall into the trap of blaming anything and anyone for your own failures. Find out how you can make that all important step in this episode.

What you will discover in this episode:

  • How it all starts with you!
  • Why a location or external issue is not the problem.
  • How you can reclaim YOUR power.
  • The reason people use locations or external issues for what’s wrong in their life
  • What ‘the curse of the achiever’ is and how it can affect you.
  • The dangers of ‘hustle’ mode.
  • How you can improve your relationship or business by taking responsibility.
  • Actionable steps to get out of the habit of blaming external things.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Master The Art Of Appreciation

Episode #16

We often think of things we perceive will make us happier in life; a new job, more money a fancy car. The truth is that it’s never actually these materialistic things that make us happy. They may provide a temporary boost in happiness but you will soon look for the ‘next’ thing to make you happy and a never-ending cycle ensues.

To truly understand the nature of happiness, you need to focus on what you have instead of what you want… appreciation!

In this episode, Tim & Doug share personal stories and actionable techniques on how to master the art of appreciation to benefit you and the people around you. Tim shares “The power of the basics”, explaining how he has seen people who work extremely hard but no matter how much they achieve it’s never enough. Going back to basics was the answer to being able to practice appreciation. Listen now to find out how you can start feeling more appreciative with some really simple and basic steps.

What you will discover in this episode:

  • How Tim overcame the feeling of being underappreciated in his daily life.
  • The power of the basics, how you can go back to the basics to be more grateful.
  • How simple conversation can help with appreciation.
  • Writing and keeping weekly notes to practice appreciation.
  • How to appreciate yourself first.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Face your Demons

Episode #15

In this episode, Tim shares a very personal of how his extended family is littered with suicide and broken down relationships due to demons of the past being handed down through generations. Tim explains how he overcame the demons in his immediate family and discusses the wider picture of how this generation needs to step up to our demons by having conversations and taking responsibility.

Mental health among young people is at an all-time low. Tim & Doug try to trace why so many people can relate to having being passed on the demons of their parents and present a fascinating theory of how what it meant to be a man was very different in previous generations and this has had a long lasting effect that is taking its toll on the young people of this generation.

Central to not wanting to share demons with those closest to us seems to be the old attitude and wiring we have of not to air our dirty laundry, always put on a brave face and the perception that things are great. This has been our instinct for many generations and continues to be so if you look at things like social media where we continue to share our highlights and positivity in a somewhat false and insecure manner.

Tim shares an experiment he put into action of trying to connect with everybody he came into contact with and how amazed he was at how much it put people on edge.

Tim & Doug explain how they have helped so many men face their demons, because we are wired to fear our demons and ignore them it’s often easier for people to do nothing about it but the truth is that the demons are never as bad as they seem and the answer lies in communicating and asking for help.

    • How suppressed demons can destroy relationships, business, friendships and lives of the next generation.
    • How to start being honest with yourself and building the strength to share with others.
    • Understanding how we all have demons inside of us.
    • How bad we have become at communicating properly.
    • Why so many of us are disconnected and driven by fear.
    • The real way we should be facing our demons.
    • The easiest way to face your demons.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Identify Patterns in Relationships

Episode #14

In this episode, Doug shares a story of someone who came to him with a troubled relationship from which Doug was able to identify a clear pattern which was occurring not just in this man’s current relationship but also in previous ones. The man was giving everything in his relationship, but in turn never felt like he was getting enough back.

At the heart of this troubled relationship was fear. The man feared losing his partner and being on his own, so gave he constantly tried to fill the cup of his partner, buying her gifts and doing everything to please her, subsequently he was not giving enough love to himself so was always playing catch up.

Tim & Doug outline the utmost importance of finding the time to give love to yourself and not to depend on it from someone else. A negative relationship will always damage your business side of life as well as the energy from all sides of your life is linked.

What you will discover in this episode:

How it always starts with YOU not someone else.

    • Understanding and avoiding a co-dependent relationship.
    • How to recognize relationship patterns.
    • How your negative impact other parts of your life like business and health.
    • How to break the patterns with conversation.
    • Taking ownership and how to discuss patterns with your partner.
    • Actionable tips for identifying and shifting the patterns of relationship.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Create and Maintain Boundaries

Episode #13

In this episode, Tim & Doug take more examples from people taking part in the ‘The Activation Method’ and common problems and obstacles they face. The focus here is on creating good boundaries with yourself.

So many people struggle with structure and organization in their business and personal lives because they have failed to create good boundaries. If you have no boundaries or structure your life and business is freewheeling, you will never know what to say yes or no to and you will fall into the trap of people pleasing and other peoples schedules and priorities will run your life instead.

With some really simple techniques, Tim & Doug help you control your boundaries and give structure to each day through planning and keeping boundaries for both business and your personal life.

What you will discover in this episode:

    • How to use free tools like google calendar or ical to create and manage your boundaries.
    • The importance of scheduling time for everything you do.
    • Avoiding people pleasing through boundaries.
    • Making sure your smartphone doesn’t control your day.
    • If you don’t set your own boundaries and schedule, your life will be run by someone else’s.
    • How to give yourself the power to say no.
    • Tim’s typical daily schedule and how it works for his business and personal life.
    • 4 actionable steps to start creating simple boundaries immediately.
    • Controlling the use of your smartphone and learning to turn it off!

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Don’t Ruffle Any Feathers

Episode #12

Tim and Doug share real life examples of when someone in a relationship holds back on who they really are in order to keep the other person happy. This is something that they see over and over again from members of ‘The Activation Process’ and it always leads to a false or failed relationship.

Like in any relationship, if you hold back on how you are really feeling for fear of upsetting your partner, it always gets bottled up and these bottled up emotions will always come out at some point in a much more explosive way than if you tackle the issue there and then.

Doug shares a personal story of when his wife spotted that he was in a habit of dimming his own lights in order to make other people feel better. Upon discovering this trait and working on it, Doug saw the picture change completely.

In the final part of this episode Tim asks the all important question, How do you let your light shine and be the full you while also keeping your partner happy…

    • The importance of a simple conversation.
    • Doug’s technique of ‘what else is possible’.
    • How to use outside the box thinking.
    • How not ruffling feathers can inspire others.
    • How to be yourself while keeping others happy.
    • Understanding when your ego is talking to you.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Be Pulled By Your Dreams

Episode #11

In this episode Tim & Doug discuss one of the most common questions asked by high achievers;  If I become content in my life will I still be driven?

A lot of people fear what might happen if they achieve the things they really desire, they have a fear that they will no longer have something to aim for and this is a key reason as to why a lot of people, if pushed by fear, hit the self destruct button and damage their lives and business.

Understanding how fear can hold you back is the key to getting past this block. It’s in our nature to think that once we have achieved our goals that we then reach the endpoint, and it’s also natural for us not to want to reach the end of our purpose because, what would we do then?

Tim & Doug use first hand examples to explain how you can 100% still be driven while being content and fulfilled with life. In fact, it can even make you more driven, more productive and things will come to you easily and seamlessly. You will begin to see things differently but it will give you a freedom to enjoy life with flow and ease.

What you will discover in this episode:

    • The main reasons people fear a content life.
    • The difference desire and fear can have on your life.
    • How your fear can push you to self destruct.
    • How to be driven by purpose and not fear.
    • How to live with flow and ease
    • The difference between ‘Get to do’ and ‘Have to do’ mentalities.
    • Understanding ‘hustle mode’ and it’s links to fear.
    • Immediate actionable tasks to lead you on the path to greatness.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Take off the Mask

Episode #10

This weeks’ episode brings another very familiar story and common thread for entrepreneurs and business owners. Tim & Doug discuss a true story about business owner they know, this man is extremely successful but admits he has no idea how he has got the success and feels like he just got lucky. Naturally this leads to extreme insecurity and fear, he doesn’t want his staff or people around him to see this, so he continues to wear the mask of being an all confident, all knowing leader.

Often leaders or business owners can wear a mask that shows them off to be the type of person they think they SHOULD be, however behind closed doors and inside their own heads, they are somebody completely different. They are somebody with huge doubts and insecurities that they don’t want others to see as in case it’s perceived as a weakness.

While all of us don’t put on a mask to such a big extent, the likelihood is that all of us put on some form of a mask, we all have insecurities and things we don’t want our colleagues or family/friends to know about. Accepting and facing these insecurities head on will ensure that they don’t show themselves in a way that damages your life and business.

The process of taking the mask off is simple, but also daunting and difficult to bring yourself to do. Taking off the mask means being completely honest with yourself first, asking yourself those important questions that will define your life; Who are you really? What do you want from life? Are you happy?

What you will discover in this episode:

    • How to recognise when you are hiding or putting up a facade in life.
    • How your mask can hold you back.
    • The top 3 things you can do immediately in the process of removing the mask.
    • How taking off the mask and embracing vulnerability can give you freedom.
    • Simple actionable techniques to start this process.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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