Where Are You Sabotaging Yourself?

Episode #62

By leveling up in your life, you are exposing yourself to more possibilities that require you to face your fears, step in, and see what life has in store for you. Who you believe yourself to be and what kind of standard you have dictates how you will perform and how you level up your performance.

When you uplevel, you will feel that some things you are currently doing are not aligned anymore with your new level, making it important to realign things. This type of mindset will guide you to where you are going and will help align you with your vision.

One of the ways to uplevel and re-align with your new standards is to identify or uncover your unconscious commitments.

Examine yourself why you are in the situations you are in, what direction you really want to go in and what things need to be realigned based on your standard.

After identifying these unconscious commitments, turn them into conscious commitments to break the pattern. Align yourself every day through meditation. Know your identity and align it to your standards.

In this episode, you will learn:

  1. How to unconscious commitments into conscious commitments
  2. The importance of knowing your identity and align it to your standards
  3. How to bridge the gap that was created during the upleveling

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Be Pulled By Your Dreams [Revisit]

Episode #61

In this episode Tim & Doug discuss one of the most common questions asked by high achievers;  If I become content in my life will I still be driven?

A lot of people fear what might happen if they achieve the things they really desire, they have a fear that they will no longer have something to aim for and this is a key reason as to why a lot of people, if pushed by fear, hit the self destruct button and damage their lives and business.

Understanding how fear can hold you back is the key to getting past this block. It’s in our nature to think that once we have achieved our goals that we then reach the endpoint, and it’s also natural for us not to want to reach the end of our purpose because what would we do then?

Tim & Doug use first-hand examples to explain how you can 100% still be driven while being content and fulfilled with life. In fact, it can even make you more driven, more productive and things will come to you easily and seamlessly. You will begin to see things differently but it will give you the freedom to enjoy life with flow and ease.

What you will discover in this episode:

    • The main reasons people fear a content life.
    • The difference desire and fear can have on your life.
    • How your fear can push you to self destruct.
    • How to be driven by purpose and not fear.
    • How to live with flow and ease
    • The difference between ‘Get to do’ and ‘Have to do’ mentalities.
    • Understanding ‘hustle mode’ and it’s links to fear.
    • Immediate actionable tasks to lead you on the path to greatness.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Don’t Ruffle Any Feathers [Revisit]

Episode #60

Tim and Doug share real-life examples of when someone in a relationship holds back on who they really are in order to keep the other person happy. This is something that they see over and over again from members of ‘The Activation Process’ and it always leads to a false or failed relationship.

Like in any relationship, if you hold back on how you are really feeling for fear of upsetting your partner, it always gets bottled up and these bottled up emotions will always come out at some point in a much more explosive way than if you tackle the issue there and then.

Doug shares a personal story of when his wife spotted that he was in a habit of dimming his own lights in order to make other people feel better. Upon discovering this trait and working on it, Doug saw the picture change completely.

In the final part of this episode Tim asks the all-important question, How do you let your light shine and be the full you while also keeping your partner happy…

  • The importance of a simple conversation.
  • Doug’s technique of ‘what else is possible’.
  • How to use outside the box thinking.
  • How not ruffling feathers can inspire others.
  • How to be yourself while keeping others happy.
  • Understanding when your ego is talking to you.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Have the Courage [Revisit]

Episode #59

In this episode Tim & Doug examine the nature of courage and try to answer the question; What is courage in our modern society?

Courage is something we hear about so often but do we really understand it? It’s something that we all have within us, but some are able to tap into it better than others and the benefits can be huge. Once you understand the true meaning of courage, you too can learn how to train yourself to be more courageous.

Courage can be used in so many ways in your life to make the changes you desire, in your business or in your personal life. Tim and Doug share real-life examples of how they and people they have worked with had the courage to open up and be honest with themselves and become the people they wanted to be, how this was a difficult process, how negatively other people reacted but how it ultimately changed their lives for the better.

What you will discover in this episode:

  • The steps to having the courage within yourself.
  • How courage is the key to freedom.
  • Why what you often perceive as courage growing up is wrong.
  • The difference between courage and bravado.
  • How you can use courage to become a Powerful Man.
  • Actionable steps that will help you step into your courage.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Invest In Your Relationship [Revisit]

Episode #58

What is the most important relationship in your life?

It’s safe to say, for most of us there is no relationship as important as the one you have with your partner. This relationship, like any business relationship, can be difficult and falls on hard times but how much to we actually invest in maintaining and improving it compared to our business relationship?

In this episode, Tim and Doug are back to analyze and discuss the root cause and solutions to some of the most common problems in relationships. Both Tim & Doug are in loving relationships with their significant others but they are happy to admit they have suffered very tough times almost to the point of the relationship breaking down completely.

What do you do when a relationship hits bad times?

It’s something so many of us can relate to. Thankfully there are a number of simple and proven techniques you can practice on a daily basis in order to improve your relationship with your other half. It starts with investing. Invest time and money into keeping your relationship healthy and don’t wait for it to become a problem before doing this.

What you will learn:

  • How to identify patterns that cause problems in your relationship.
  • Simple tips and techniques to overcoming relationship friction.
  • How to balance your work and relationship properly.
  • How to stop automatically judging and blaming.
  • How to communicate honestly and openly without guilt.
  • What having a coach can do for your relationship.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Re-Establishing Your Identity As A Father

Episode #57

We define a father based on how we have seen and experienced growing up as their kids. We have our stories to tell about our fathers both good and bad ones but it is up to us to decide what kind of father we want to be later on. We do not need to re-live the same story, we have our choice to rewrite our own.

As early as now, while they are still young, embrace the opportunity, be in it, live in it, dictate to them, be an alpha. Treat them like real men because they are adults in training but also do not forget to be kind, graceful and forgiving. There will be pleasure and pain throughout the journey but if you have the skillset to recognize the energy that comes with it, you will be able to decide what to do with the energy instead of letting the energy takes over.

Be the model you want your children to follow as they grow old. Write the story that you want your children to talk about someday and be inspired by it. In order to be that version of yourself that you want to show, later on, you must invest in the actions that will get you there.

Be aware, reinforce your identity and take that first step in rewriting your own story.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. How to be a good father
  2. How to overcome the tornado of fatherhood
  3. The steps to becoming the best version of yourself
  4. How to reinforce your identity
  5. How to set new standards

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?

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Improve a Sexless Relationship[Revisit]

Episode #56

In this episode, Tim & Doug touch on the topic men too often are afraid to talk about their own sexual relationships with their partners. We were raised to see this as a very private part of our lives and not something that was to be discussed openly. The male ego can also stop us from admitting to a poor sexual relationship, but many people suffer from a sexless relationship that has lost its energy and spark.

By understanding the energy that revolves around an exciting new relationship, you can work to recreate the energy with a wife or long-term partner. In this episode join Tim & Doug as they share real-life examples and practical, actionable techniques for improving a sexless relationship.

What you will learn from this episode:

  • Discover the stages that can lead or has already lead to a sexless relationship
  • The importance of being open and honest about sex and eliminate the fear of sexual discussion
  • How our sexual desires change over time
  • The 3 levels of progression in a sexual relationship
  • The 2 key things that really connect people in a relationship
  • How to have true connected sex
  • 3 actionable steps for getting out of or avoiding a sexless relationship

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Fighting For Your Story

Episode #55

Because of the influence of society, we tend to hide our true self in a story. We become part of a story that will eventually consume us and will make us forget our true identity.

We are scared that people will come to know our flaws and weaknesses so we hide in these false stories until we become stuck in it.

We become blinded by the comfort that we get from hiding in these stories that we don’t realize how much these stories are no longer serving us.

To find out if you’re stuck in a story, you first need to be aware of what is true to you and spot the pattern. Talk to people and share your weakness and vulnerability. This allows people to know the REAL you and understand you. 

Ask for advice from people who have gone through what it is you’re going through because these are the people who will understand your situation better than anyone. 

Detach yourself from the story and see what is really true to you, your true identity and re-align with that every day.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. How to not let your stories consume you
  2. How be true to yourself
  3. Why our stories should serve us to our highest being
  4. The power of sharing your weakness and vulnerability to let people in
  5. Why you should not let yourself stay stuck in the stories that you are in.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?

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Doug Holt

I am a father, a husband, a business owner and a friend.

From the outside, you’ll see a man who owns several successful companies, travels around the world, has an amazing family, lives a location independent lifestyle… and you’d be right.

What you don’t know is the work I did to get here. You don’t know that trials that I went through in my own life that led me to want to help business leaders like you.

I started coaching back in 1995. Since that time I’ve learned a lot about business owners and even more about myself.

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Why We Fight For Our Excuses & How To Stop It

Episode #54

We are living in a land of comparison. We often compare ourselves to our future selves or we compare ourselves to a greater person than who we are.

When we start to think that we should be farther ahead than who and where we are now, we begin to feel so much pressure and end up beating ourselves up which can lead to depression.

We compare ourselves to other people that surround us and when we feel that we are lesser compared to that other person we start feeling frustrated. We end up escaping from reality through food, addiction, pornography, social media, etc.. Society is giving us this paradigm that if you do this, you will become like that.

It is important to note that it is not our fault for being in this kind of situation but we DO have control over it. We just need to be self-aware.

It becomes your fault when you become aware of it but you still continue to give your power away. If you feel that the rules dictated by society do not fit your desires, you have to start questioning in order to make a change.

Do not force yourself. Set a goal and enjoy the whole experience starting from the beginning until you reach the endpoint. The whole journey may not be all good but allow the growth to occur and just enjoy each moment.

Do not avoid the energy or emotion that shows up for you. Let these emotions serve as a fuel and learn the lessons that show up. Navigate your way into acceptance and gratitude for what’s coming instead of forcing your way out of it.

Take all the insights and break the cycle.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. We have power over the rules dictated by society.
  2. How to reach your goals without attacking it forcefully. 
  3. How to allow yourself to grow while reaching your goal.
  4. How to appreciate where you are and what you do right NOW by using all the insights you will learn along your journey for you to succeed in getting to your end goal.

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Do you ever feel like something is missing?  

That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?

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