Planning the Perfect Date Night

Episode #93

Having a perfect date night is something that men aim for. And let us tell you….planning it is really a challenge!

Expectation versus reality comes into play in a major way with this one. So the question is…is there a formula for having that perfect date night?

In this episode, Tim and Doug share their ways of planning their perfect date nights.

Get it in your calendar. Think about the outcomes that you want to have during and after that date night. Paint that picture in your head. Give yourself a transition time, from “work mode” or whatever mode you were in to “date night mode”. Don’t rush yourself getting into that “date night mode”.

Make sure to figure out what you like and equally important, what your partner or your wife likes as well. Looking around within your community and seeing what you can do in the area would be a great help in planning your perfect date nights. Avoid planning at the last minute because most of the time, the result isn’t great or sometimes, it will be a disaster. Always start with the end in mind.

However, don’t put too many expectations on your date nights. Remember that it’s not going to always be perfect. We’re all human. Think less about the expectations and think more about the possibilities. At the end of the day, your presence and the connections that you’ll make on your date night is more important.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. How to plan a perfect date night
  2. The importance of planning the perfect date night
  3. The importance of thinking more about the possibilities versus expectations

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When Therapy Doesn’t Work

Episode #92

What happens when therapy doesn’t work?

For most men, there has been a lot of negative connotations around going to therapy, whether it’s couples therapy, marriage counseling, or therapy on their own.

Some men that come through The Powerful Man say their therapy wasn’t successful because the therapist is a woman and they can’t rely on her to will really understand what they’re going through.

Other men believe the stigma that being in therapy indicates that there is something wrong with them.

Oftentimes, therapy doesn’t work for men because men try to compartmentalize their lives that affect almost every area of their lives, their businesses, their marriages, their health, their finances, and personal happiness.

If therapy doesn’t work for you…try something else!

The truth is, you are not put on this world to struggle. You’ve just been using the wrong system or the wrong roadmap.

If you’re given the right roadmap and you’re willing to do the work, then a particular result happens.

Do something.

Don’t be in therapy if you’re experiencing no results and you aren’t doing anything about it.

Don’t be afraid to pivot.

Don’t be afraid to make a change.

Know when perseverance is starting to work against you & don’t be afraid to try something different.

Make that call.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. What to do when therapy doesn’t work.
  2. The importance of having the right therapy.
  3. The importance of not settling.
  4. The importance of taking action when you’re not seeing any results.

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Holding Space for the Woman in Your Life

Episode #91

Many men who come to The Powerful Man are either on the brink of divorce or have been experiencing a rough time with their partner.

In this episode, we dive deep into what it looks like to hold space for your woman and why holding space for her is the answer you’ve been looking for.

Like most things…it starts with us. It starts with knowing who we are, knowing who we want, and gaining clarity around the direction we want to go on in our lives.

By being the most authentic version of ourselves, showing up as the men we are capable of being, and being secure with ourselves we are able to hold the space our partners need in order to feel seen.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. Why you should figure out who you are and what you want
  2. The importance of being present and holding space with the people that we love
  3. How to let our loved ones feel that sense of security
  4. How to be confident of who you are without the need for validation from other people

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Do You Know You’re Capable Of More?

Episode #90

In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss Tim’s conversation with one of the men from the brotherhood. He shared that this particular man has been hiding or living just to get by for the past several months after becoming a better man as a result of joining the brotherhood.

For the past 12 months, this guy achieved phenomenal things. To name a few, he landed a 6-figure deal in his business which is the largest in his company’s history, he reunited with his family, lost weight, is now picking up his kids from school and now has control over all aspects of his life.

Yet…over the past month or so, he has been doing ‘just enough’ to get by. He has been making promises but then not following through, especially in his business. His company has been receiving negative reviews for its poor customer service which Tim believes is a reflection of him not being there to provide presence and leadership.

Most men, if not all, experience this situation.

In business, for example, we are so used to hustling and grinding our way until we reach our business goals. And then when we reach those goals, we just stop working.

We take our foot off the gas. We settle. And two or three months go by, and suddenly we lose a client, and another client, and another client. By the time we take to look at it, the business is already burning down.

So we start to take action again, step on the gas again, hustle and grind until we build the business back up again. And then we settle again and then we burn it again and then build it back up and then settle again. The pattern goes on and on.

Until you figure out why you do this, why that pattern keeps on happening, where’s the source of it, you will be trapped inside this loop.

Get very clear with yourself. Are you being the man you know you can be? Don’t get stuck in the patterns that don’t serve you.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • What is Upper Limiting
  • What is Unconcious Commitment
  • What to do when you reach your threshold
  • The importance of recognizing the patterns that don’t serve you

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The Power of Integrity

Episode #89

Have you ever witness someone destroying other people just to gain more in their own life or business? 

Has that person ever been you? 

It’s not uncommon to see someone taking advantage of others to grow their own business. Typically these are people who are not satisfied with where they are, what they have, and who they are?

These people feel disconnected to themselves, finding themselves in broken relationships. 

Has that person ever been you?

In this episode, we talk about the power of knowing who you are, connecting with yourself, and knowing what really matters to you.

If you relate to the person described above….we guide you in HOW you can take steps to make a change and a transformation. HOW you can reconnect with who you are and have a life that have been craving  

Do it for yourself.

Your business will grow exponentially as a result of leveling up without the need to screw other people. What you do and how you perform and how you treat other people is a complete reflection of yourself.

Be a person with integrity while leveling up your game.

What you will learn in this episode:

  • The importance of integrity
  • The importance of being satisfied with yourself and your relationships
  • The importance of knowing yourself and asking for help when things aren’t working out
  • How to level up your game without hurting other people

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Am I A Great Father?

Episode #88

As men, we are taught that in order to provide for our family we have to work hard. Working hard then leads us to hustle, leaving us to think that we are doing exactly what we are supposed to do….but in reality, we are completely missing the mark.

While you are busy grinding to secure your children’s future, you are losing the chance to be with them while they are growing up because there is no energy left for them every time you get home.

You lose the chance to be physically and emotionally present for them and the chance to experience having a great father who can serve as their model when they themselves become fathers.

To be a great father you should have the skillset to understand your children and get into THEIR world. Spend time with them and do your best to not miss important events in their lives.

We often grind so we can give them everything we think they need to be happy but what we don’t realize is that spending quality time with them IS what makes them happy.

Know your priorities. Know what really matters to you. If you say it is your children or family, then you have to be PRESENT for them.

Break the pattern and be a father whom your children will look up to.

What you will learn in this episode:

  1. How to provide emotionally for your children by being present
  2. How to know your priorities and focus on what really matters to you as a father
  3. The importance of understanding your children’s needs
  4. What it means to be a great father

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Giving Your Life More Meaning

Episode #87

We are taught to believe that when we hustle and grind we will become successful and this will make us happy. This is the idea of success and happiness that was taught to us by society.

But what if you were to identify for yourself what will give you that true happiness and life’s meaning? What if you chose to break the rules and just do what you love to do?

Letting yourself experience spontaneous fun and just doing what you love is MORE important than living the way society wants you to.

When we inject fun in all areas of our lives, life starts to become more meaningful, business grows a lot faster while doing less and your relationship starts to have a deeper connection and intimacy.

In this episode you will learn :

  1. The importance of injecting fun in all areas of your life
  2. How to be successful and happy by doing less
  3. How to let yourself find life’s meaning by breaking the rules and just doing what you love.

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That you know you’re capable of more but you don’t know how to access it?
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Be A Man

Episode #86

Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of it comes from feeling secure from the person who’s leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family.

In order to become the powerful man that your wife needs, you should first recognize where you are now and know where you are going. You must define for yourself what it means to be a man and not rely on what the society dictates on how to be a man. Know your potential and know what kind of man you are capable of becoming.

Do not be afraid to step up and be a powerful man. Be a man who takes care of himself so that he can take care of his partner.

To be a powerful man, you must be capable of leading your partner emotionally through your energy, time, attention and strength.

In order for you to lead, you must have a vision for your family, you should know what your desires are and where you want to go. If you have all these, your partner will see you as a man and they can put their trust in you and they will feel more secure and loved.

In this episode you will learn:

  1. What it means to be a powerful man
  2. How to lead your partner
  3. The importance of knowing where you are and where you’re going
  4. How to understand your potential

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Are You Paying Attention to the Warning Signs?

Episode #85

Most men have the belief that to provide for his family is to provide “financially”. So as a result, he hustles and grinds every day to earn money but eventually loses himself in the process and doesn’t have anything more to give when he gets home.

He’s physically there but emotionally absent. Women tend to notice immediately if their partner is not doing well in the relationship but men, most of the time, will only figure it out later.

Men typically figure out there is an issue in the relationship AFTER he has already pushed his partner far away, has made many broken promises and the trust is gone.

In this episode, we talk about how men should be proactive and pay attention to the warning signs so they can do something and make a change while it’s not too late.

Be aware of what’s going on around you. If you are being tested by your partners and they are giving you the warning signs, be grateful because you now have the opportunity to make amends. Once you recognize the warning signs, take ownership of what you do as a man and take massive action.

If you ignore the warning signs, you will pay the price and will have an even tougher journey later on because you failed to make things right when you had the chance.

In this episode you will learn:

  1. Recognizing the Warning Signs
  2. The Importance of Providing Emotionally
  3. The Importance of Being Proactive and Taking Ownership as a Man.

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It’s Not The Location [Revisit]

Episode #84

In this episode Tim & Doug discuss a real life example of a man they spoke with who felt everything around him was the reason he was unfulfilled. He blamed the location in which he was based, the people and other external factors for all that was wrong in his life, avoiding the real issue, which was himself!

This is a very common occurrence in men that Tim & Doug help on a regular basis. People who don’t take responsibility for themselves and always look to the nearest thing to point the finger of blame. We’ve all met that people who never seem happy in their job / relationship and yet they continuously blame external things… their job, their boss, their partner. It’s not bad luck that puts a person in these circumstances over and over, it’s the person themselves and once they accept that their lives can be changed.

At the end of this episode Tim & Doug also share a story of how another man who had fallen into the habit of blaming external issues in his business, once he made the realisation he saw some immediate changes to his business and turnover.

Until you decide to take responsibility for yourself, you will never be the happiest and reach your full potential. Don’t fall into the trap of blaming anything and anyone for your own failures. Find out how you can make that all important step in this episode.

What you will discover in this episode:

  • How it all starts with you!
  • Why a location or external issue is not the problem.
  • How you can reclaim YOUR power.
  • The reason people use locations or external issues for what’s wrong in their life
  • What ‘the curse of the achiever’ is and how it can affect you.
  • The dangers of ‘hustle’ mode.
  • How you can improve your relationship or business by taking responsibility.
  • Actionable steps to get out of the habit of blaming external things.

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