What has been holding you back in your life, career, or relationships? Could it be that you just don’t feel like yourself?
Are you looking to boost your masculine energy?
It is no secret that there is a major difference between men and women. What many people don’t realize is that men should take advantage of their masculinity, and women can also be more masculine.
To boost your masculine energy, follow the steps below:
Step #1 – Take notice of your level of self-confidence
Are you self-confident? Do you have a positive outlook on life? If not, work on improving it by doing the following:
Take the time to think about what makes you happy in your life. What do you enjoy doing? Do something that brings you joy every day. What do you enjoy doing with your friends? Do it more often. What is something you love to do in your free time? Spend more time doing that.
You can also tone up your confidence by surrounding yourself with people who are confident as well. It will boost your energy, and you will be happier as a result. Find a good group of friends or attend a weekend workshop to boost your self-confidence and masculine energy.
It has often been said that you are the product of the 5 people you spend the most time with – this is one of many reasons men join our Brotherhood program upon graduation of The Activation Method.
Step #2 – Cultivate a positive mindset
Automatic thoughts are very powerful. What are the automatic thoughts that are telling you what is going to happen in your life? (ex: I am not worth anything, I should be happy, I am fat, etc.) You can improve how your brain processes information by using the following:
Use affirmations, such as: “I am confident and successful.” “No matter what anyone else says, I will always have a positive and healthy attitude.” “I recognize my value.” “I am healthy and fit. I am attractive and attractive to others!” “I am confident and at peace with myself.”
Step #3 – Keep a positive attitude in the face of adversity
In life, there will be times when you encounter some challenges. We all have adversity that we go through. For masculinity, I recommend the following:
Try to see adversity as an opportunity to become more masculine. How can you use the adversity to become more masculine? Ex: “I should handle this challenge the way that someone who is confident would handle it. I should be a leader and be the one to help this person or situation.” “I know that I can handle this challenge. I will use my masculine energy and take action. When I take action, I feel more confident and powerful.”
Step #4 – Concentrate on what makes you happy
Focusing on what makes you happy will make you a happier, more positive person. The following are some ways to increase your happiness:
Pay attention to the things that make you happy. Focus on them more often. When you focus on something, your mind automatically wants to replicate that feeling again, so your brain looks for situations that will give it similar feelings as before. When you continually use your masculine energy, you are happier and more positive, which will help with increasing your self-confidence.
Step #5 – Take action instead of procrastinating
As a man or woman, you have goals and dreams. When it comes to those dreams and goals, do you take the necessary steps to reach them? Most of the time, people don’t take the necessary steps because they either feel that they can’t or they just don’t want to. Instead of procrastinating about it, use the following:
Think about what needs to be done. What are all the steps that need to be taken in order for you to achieve your goal? Write this list down. Then, watch what your body does when you get started on the steps. Use the following to increase your masculine energy:
Take small steps. Keep taking one step at a time until you reach your goal. Don’t try to do too much at once. If you’re having trouble focusing, get away from your computer or phone and take a walk or go for a drive. Set a specific time limit for doing the steps. For example, if you have trouble staying focused for more than 45 minutes, set a timer for 45 minutes.
When you are focused and doing the steps, you feel more powerful and confident. You will naturally start moving forward to your goal with masculine energy.
Step #6 – Demonstrate confidence before projecting it outward
As a man or woman, there are times when you are not feeling particularly confident. If this is the case, take the following:
Think about what makes you feel more confident. Focus on those activities. When people see that they make you feel confident, they want to be around that person because they want what that person has (masculine energy). You will be happier and more confident. This will help you to act more like a man or woman naturally and you will feel more masculine or feminine.
After completing these steps, you will notice that you feel much better about yourself and your confidence level has gone up. You will also find that women find you more attractive than before. You may even start to notice the changes in yourself right away. If this happens, don’t be surprised! Everyone changes all the time to some degree, but some people don’t realize they are changing until they look back at themselves after a certain amount of time has passed.
Step #7 – Be yourself
To boost your masculine energy, you want to be yourself. Being a fake person will not get you the results that you want in life. It won’t give you satisfaction because you are deceiving others and deceiving yourself as well.
When it comes to friendship and relationships with women, you do need to have a balance between being yourself and putting on a show. In other words, don’t go around telling people your life story when all they want to know is what time it is! Don’t ask women out if they are already in another relationship. Be real about what is going on in your life and make sure that it’s appropriate for the situation at hand. This can be very difficult, and there are no hard and fast rules. If you can, ask those that you respect what they think about the situation. Pay close attention to the reactions of others. They will let you know if your actions or words are appropriate or inappropriate.
Step #8 – Don’t change to fit in
Don’t worry about changing who you are to fit in with certain people or situations. Be yourself! If someone doesn’t like it, then that’s their problem, not yours! Many times, people change things about themselves to try to make other people happy and this causes them a lot of emotional pain and suffering. They become bitter and resentful for not being true to themselves. Being true to yourself will make others respect you more because they know that you are being genuine. It is more difficult to be phony than it is to be genuine, but if you’re not being yourself and “acting like a man”, you never know who might end up being your best friend or the love of your life!
Step #9 – Have fun
When you are having fun with other people and when you are enjoying your “manly” activities, it will show. When this happens, women will want to spend time with you because they like the way that you act (masculine energy). Other people will like hanging out with someone who has masculine energy because they feel good around them and enjoy spending time with them. When you are more relaxed and having fun, you are more yourself. Being yourself will make you happier.
Don’t take life so seriously all the time! Laugh, joke around, and have fun with others. It makes people feel good to be around someone who is happy and in a good mood. Don’t stuff your emotions down inside of yourself just because you think that it’s what a man or woman is supposed to do. Letting others see the real you will help them to see that men or women can be great friends as well as partners in relationships.
Step #10 – Be aware of your actions
Be aware of your actions! Everything that you do is a reflection of who you are (especially when dealing with other people). If you make a mistake or someone misunderstands something you do, don’t get mad or scared. Learn from your mistakes and try to understand where the misunderstanding came from. If people seem to be upset with you, go to them and ask what is wrong. It will help if you say something like, “I realize that I did something wrong that hurt your feelings. Can we talk about it?” This approach will work best if your actions don’t show any signs of you being deceitful or manipulative because this just makes things worse.
Step #11 – Be kind
Share your gifts and talents with others. This will increase the level of femininity and positive energy flowing through the world. When you look for ways to give back, it helps you to feel better about yourself and your masculinity. This can also make you a great mentor for other people who are going through tough times in their lives. They will feel more comfortable seeking your advice if they know that you are working hard to improve yourself!
Step #12 – Be a leader
Show the way by setting an example of what it looks like to be masculine or feminine in certain situations or with certain groups of people. You want to lead by example and not come across as being bossy or controlling. You want to get people to do what you want without having to ask them or force them. Followers are much better than dictators, so don’t be the latter.
Step #13 – Be a good listener and communicator
Many times, men or women lose out on having successful relationships because they don’t listen well enough. This makes everyone involved feel misunderstood, which causes anger and hurt feelings. When you listen well, you don’t need to talk all the time. Everyone will know what you want and how to do it if they know that you are being responsible and reliable.
Step #14 – Be a good provider
Men (especially those who have masculine energy) need to provide for their families. Without this, many of them would end up having nothing! This is the masculine version of being a good provider so th at women will be attracted to them (or at least not be turned away).
Be a provider to women in your life by being trustworthy, caring, dependable, loyal, honest and other such traits. You should also have your own interests as well as a sense of humor (both serious and playful) for you to have masculine energy. This can be done by you or by the people that you allow in your life. It is up to you!
Step #15 – Be patient
Waiting is an important part of any form of success. It can be difficult not to get frustrated when things aren’t working out quickly enough for your desires or expectations. Instead, you need to be patient and trust that things will work out for the best. We do not know what the future will hold, but it is important to stay positive and hopeful about how things will turn out for us.
Step #16 – Don’t try to change other people
If someone doesn’t like you or your masculine energy, then accept it and move on. Trying to change them will just cause more problems in your life. Focus on finding the right type of people that you want in your life instead!
Step #17 – Set goals
It is important to set goals for yourself so that you always have something to work towards.at your “little woman” or boyfriend will not have to worry about money issues once she or he marries you. It’s called being “provider” because it shows that you understand the feminine energy in your relationships and how important it is to take care of others by providing them with what they need.
Step #18 – Be a gentleman
Show your feminine energy by being a gentleman. Be polite and courteous to everyone that you meet. Open doors for people and think of ways that you can help other people. It doesn’t have to be anything big, but it shows that you are being more of a “gentleman” (with masculine energy) than most men!
Step #19 – Take care of yourself
Do nice things for yourself. Get dressed well and look your best when meeting people. You should also take care of yourself by working out and eating well so that you don’t look unappealing and unhealthy.
Step #20 – Strive for excellence
Be dedicated to your goals. Always strive and work harder than everyone else. When you are involved in a competition, work harder than everyone else so that you can win! If you don’t win, there will always be someone who will!
Step #21 – Be modest and modest
You want to be modest when it comes to showing excessiveness or arrogance. Sometimes this is called “unmanliness” (because the opposite of masculinity is lack of femininity). Instead, you should show confidence in your actions and be humble about what you know.
Step #22 – Be fierce but don’t be too angry or violent
Feminine energy can be fierce, but it is not meant to be too angry or violent (which means that it is lost). Sometimes a woman’s fierceness comes off as being mean or rough when they are trying so hard to get their way. This isn’t right! Instead of being peaceful and pleasant all of the time, try to balance it out with aggression when you need it. This will show your feminine energy while also showing your masculine energy at the same time.
Step #23 – Be selective and focused
Be selective with the people that you allow in your life. Only let those people into your life who are going to be able to help you advance towards your goals. Do not let other people influence or change you, even if they try to convince you that they will like it if you do something.
Step #24 – Be calm
As a man or woman, find ways of showing that you are “cerebral,” but don’t fall into being too cold and uncaring about things. This is a negative aspect of feminine energy, and you don’t want to be thought of in this way.
Step #25 – Know when to let go
Drop old baggage, bad habits and other types of negativity from your life. This is one of the most important aspects of feminine energy and it is one that men (especially) tend to forget about. If you don’t let go, you’re going to carry around all sorts of negativity with you until it finally gets the best of you and causes some sort of stress or depression. Be free!
Step #26 – Be smart and strategic
You should also show your intellect by being smart and strategic when it comes to doing things in life. You should do your homework, plan things out in advance and learn from the past to help you with the future (so that you can avoid repeating mistakes). This is an important part of feminine energy.
Step #27 – Be generous
Be generous with your time, money, and other things that you have. Share what you have with others so that they can also be successful! You never know when they may need something from you that they turn to you. Be ready to give love, support, and all of the other positive things that women like so much!
Step #28 – Be true to yourself
Never lose sight of who you are just to please someone else because it will cause more problems than it will solve. You should be true to yourself because you will appreciate the things that you have more and it will make your life better.
Step #29 – Be self-aware
Know when something is wrong so that you can correct it. Don’t ignore problems until they become critical because then you’ll have a problem on your hands. This is an important trait of feminine energy! As men, we tend to blow things off until they turn into a major issue. Be smart so that you can avoid all of these problems!
Step #30 – Be empathetic
Be empathetic towards others. Empathy is another characteristic of feminine energy and it will help you to get along with everyone else who you meet. You should share the feelings of others and understand what they think or feel. This will make them feel cared for and loved which women love!
Step #31 – Know how to have fun
Don’t take everything in life too seriously, but also don’t be one of those men who has no sense of humor at all either. Just enjoy yourself when you’re at home and out on the town with friends! That’s what life is really about, after all. don’t think of it as a chore, but rather as a way to fill your life with joy.
There are many reasons men struggle with finding their masculinity. At The Powerful Man, we teach men how to go from De-Activated to Activated through a proven process known as The Activation Method. See how hundreds of men, just like you, have found success this year alone by seeing what they have to say about the program in their own words here.