Working with hundreds of men, we have found that many of them are struggling with their sex lives….but don’t talk about it with anyone.
How can you reignite the spark and really get your sex life back to where you want it to be?
That’s what we dive into in the episode…
Many men have this secret problem to the point in their marriage where they use PORN instead of having sex with their wives or partner.
It is really easy to go into that position because men are so used to working hard in their business or jobs, making decisions all day, to provide for their families.
So many people demanding so much of you that by the time you come home, you’re so exhausted. Hence, you don’t have the energy to connect with your wife.
In the same manner, your wife may also feel the same since she’s so exhausted from working around the house, taking care of your children, doing the chores, etc. It’s really a tough situation to be in.
When things go unsaid and things get avoided, it can easily create a void in your relationship and get out of sync, sexually. And before you know it, you easily turn to porn because that’s the easier option instead of you giving the effort to seduce your wife and make love with her.
There are three things you could do about it.
Either one, do nothing about it and settle or two, you leave the relationship because in your mind, the problem has gone way too far. But usually, what happens is that you just take the same problem to that new relationship and you end up leaving again. And option three, is you do the work. You see what’s going on and you address it.
What we talk about in this episode will not be an overnight fix. You get to remember that every relationship is like a bank account. You got to keep making deposits in order to make a withdraw. Invest in your relationship and take action. It’s never too late to do it unless you take action now.
What you will learn in this episode:
- How to reignite your sex life
- The importance of addressing the issue immediately
- The importance of being present in the relationship without expecting anything in return
- The importance of having a regular “You and Me” time
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