Get More Sex Without Being Needy

Episode #380

Thinking about asking for more sex, but afraid of seeming needy?

How can you initiate without putting everything on the line?

There are two types of initiation. Physical and verbal. Touch her in ways and in places that are sensual and intimate. Make her feel that this is not just some kind of movie you are making.

The big takeaway here is to enjoy being sensual with her. You can touch a woman in a way that makes her feel connected and feel cared for. Sex is about both arousal and comfort, so make sure she feels comfortable and safe enough first. Initiate the touch without expecting to go any further.

In verbal initiation, compliments are the big ticket. Be specific with your compliments so that she’s really feeling your appreciation and your shared connection. Flirt, have fun, be silly!

Focus on how you can get intimate without being sexual – whether on the physical or verbal side. Have fun with it. Find ways to meet your needs and meets her needs.

In this episode, how to get more sex without seeming needy, and what you can do when you want to have sex with your wife. Based on the two types of initiation, we discuss things you can do to get her in the mood and to create chemistry.


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