I wore a mask.
To everyone around me I had my shit together…
A fitness company that was one of the UK’s fastest growing pre and postnatal fitness franchises.
On top of that our concept had just been accepted into the UK’s biggest health club chain, Virgin Active.
I was engaged and about to get married at one of THE BEST locations in the UK…
…and we’d just bought a detached 4 bedroom home all set to fill with “a family”.
I WAS LIVING SOMEONE ELSE’S DREAM.
This wasn’t me.
But I tolerated, settled and sacrificed because I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted.
I didn’t feel good enough.
I felt like I was on an island in the middle of the ocean.
And I hid this away from EVERYONE.
I put on a brave face because I didn’t want to look weak or admit defeat.
All I knew was that I couldn’t let my parents put £10,000 down on a wedding that I KNEW would end in divorce.
Looking back, this was crazy.
I should NEVER have let it get to this point.
The relationship was toxic AND abusive but I tolerated it because deep down I feared that no one else would want me.
This spilt over into business.
Sure, we had one of the fastest growing franchises but behind the scene I was CONSTANTLY putting our fires!
I’d attract problem clients, and worse, I take on problem clients.
I’d undercharge for my services and I held back from doing what I REALLY wanted to do.
I turned to food, drugs and alcohol as a way to feel good.
As a way to seek pleasure and experience connection.
I became numb.
I BURIED THE TRUTH & THE PAIN
I turned off my emotions as a way to cope.
Luckily, over the past 4 years I’ve been able to get to the root of what was holding me back and move through it.
I’m now living as ME.
Receiving comments like you see on the picture mean so much to me.
It’s a reminder than being ME is the only to for me to be!
Now, I’m actually proud of who I am, how I show up and what I’m creating in this world (with the help of others).
And the best part…
I’ve put this into a system called The Activation Method.
To date, The Activation Method has helped over 246 men from 4 different continents take control of their life and discover how powerful they REALLY are.
Their businesses have grown 2X – 4X (some even 6X) simply by them being a more effective leader and entrepreneur.
Their relationship is flourishing – they’re having more sex with fewer arguments and WAY MORE FUN!
Their health is BOOMING – they feel fit, active and strong, emotionally, physically and mentally.
No more reliance on food, alcohol (or drugs) to switch off or gain pleasure.
They are PROUD of who they are, how they show up and what they’re creating!
In short, they’re living a life they LOVE.
And rightly so – it’s our divine right!
YOU DESERVE TO LIVE A LIFE YOU LOVE!
You’re allowed to be happy right NOW.
You don’t have to wait.
Otherwise, if you wait to be happy then you’ll wait to be happy.
The perfect moment is never going to come.