No Man’s Land
The agony you feel when you start comparing yourself with the man you know you could be can be stopped if you just commit to change.
The idea of change is not as scary as we believed it would be but it is worth taking the risk.
Change your ways.
Stop comparing yourself.
And uplevel your standards in order to be the man you are capable of being.
Don’t be in no man’s land, a situation where you are in between where you are and where you want to be.
We go through agonies, we feel insecure, lonely, empty and we end up sabotaging ourselves. Because of anger, we start pushing our loved ones and sacrificing our relationship until we become lonely and empty.
When shame and guilt build-up, it will result in self-isolation and fueling up the cycle.
You can get out of this situation as long as you are willing to recognize that you are in it and are willing to commit to a change.
Raise your standards, think of what standard you want to pass on to your kids and what kind of man you want to be for the people you love.
Value yourself, invest in your self-improvement and happiness and value the people that you love and step forward.
What you will learn in this episode:
- Leveling up your standards
- The importance of committing to change
- Knowing what you are capable of being
- Getting rid of the agonies we experience from comparing ourselves to the man we are today to the man we know we could be.
- Valuing yourself and stepping forward
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