The Powerful Man Show

Are You A ‘DEER’?

Episode #272

Are you confident about your decisions? Are you insecure and worried about not getting approval from your wife?

Unknowingly, men can become the beta in the relationship, especially when women start to make demands or test their partner. Men become more submissive. This is when the DEER appears: Defending, Excusing, Explaining, and Rationalizing. You only do that with someone you are subordinate to.

If a man can effectively validate his wife, complaints will become a lot less frequent because she already feels seen and heard. There’s no need for the DEER, just live your own passion, and follow your purpose.

In this episode, you will learn how to get rid of the DEER in the relationship, and more about the importance of validation in lessening complaints from your wife.


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