Episode #1014
In this episode, Doug sits down with Scott to unpack what it really means to emotionally connect with your partner. And no, it’s not about talking more or trying harder. It’s about presence, vulnerability, and learning how to show up fully as a man.
They talk openly about midlife struggle, emotional safety in relationships, and how most guys are chasing sex when what they’re actually craving is connection. You’ll hear personal stories from Scott’s transformation, going from emotionally reactive to grounded and intentional, and how that shift brought his wife closer than ever.
If you’ve ever felt like something’s “off” in your marriage but couldn’t quite name it, this one’s worth your time. You’ll walk away with real insights on what it means to truly penetrate your woman, not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
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Transcription
Scott 0:00
My dad did the best he could. He did what he knew. My grandfather did the best he could. Both great men. But when there are heartaches, I don’t want my children or my grandchildren to have to walk through heartaches. I want them to be protected so that as they walk into life, they’re not wounded. They’re healed, they’re strong, they’re wise, they’re open, they’re loving, they’re fierce.
Doug Holt 0:38
Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of the TPM show. Today is going to be an awesome episode. We have Scott Wolford here. Scott was just assisting on The Alpha Reset, which, if you’re not familiar with that, you’re gonna learn a lot about in this episode. But we’re also gonna talk about how to penetrate your woman, and guys, it’s probably not what you’re initially gonna think. We’re gonna see where this conversation goes. So stick around. This is gonna be a great one. Scott, thanks for being here, man.
Scott 1:19
Absolutely. It was a life-changing experience for them. It’s a life-changing experience for me, being on this side versus the other side of the Reset from a year ago. It is extremely eye-opening and has even taken me farther on my journey.
Doug Holt 1:35
Awesome, man. I always remember that here we are, 1000 some episodes in. Some men are new to this show, so they don’t know what the Reset is. For those listening, we call it the Alpha Reset, or AR for short. We’re simple men, so AR works. It is our immersive four-day experience. We host it here at the TPM Ranch, also in the UK. It’s where men come in and get the chance to release and reclaim the man they’ve always been. On the other side of that experience is nothing short of phenomenal.
Scott 2:12
I absolutely agree. I found myself a year ago in that journey, that three-day journey of release and reclaim. I found who I was, and I’m still learning in the process, but I saw a glimpse. The picture just keeps getting brighter and brighter, and this four-day experience brought more light to it.
Doug Holt 2:37
It was awesome. Let’s talk about that a second. For The Alpha Reset, without giving anything away, what did it mean to you?
Scott 2:50
My Reset?
Doug Holt 2:51
Your Reset.
Scott 2:53
My Reset. There were things I had held on to that needed healing. As a man, you think you go through life and, “I’ve got this, everything’s good.” I had personally hit a place I was almost 50 years old. Well, I’m 50 now, but at that point, almost 50, sort of in that midlife crisis place, and I didn’t know how to move forward. I wasn’t sure where I wanted to go, what my direction should be. For me, it was undoing the baggage. Undoing the things that had weighed me down for quite a few years. Dealing with those things, and then getting a vision and direction. I feel like so many men struggle with that midlife crisis, and it goes on for years. I made a shift and went through it. I regained a vision and direction of who I am, and it’s charged me over this last year.
Doug Holt 3:54
I love that, buddy. It’s so interesting because it’s hard to describe. When men walk through the door to go to their Reset, I think a lot of guys don’t know what they need. They realize it retrospectively. Coming out of it, you’ll hear a lot of guys say, “I found my heart.” I don’t think many men walk in the door looking for their heart. It’s really hard to describe, because I can imagine a guy imagine me, old me sitting on the couch watching someone talk about this, about finding your heart. “What the heck is that guy talking about? I’m not looking for that. The problem I have is in my marriage. The problem I have is I’m not happy, I’m depressed. I’m making money, I’m checking all the boxes, but I’m not content.”
Scott 4:35
Finding the heart that was it for me. When I first heard TPM, I’ll give this quick story. It was the day after I turned 49. I felt like going into my 50th year was going to be a year of freedom. I didn’t know what that meant. I was frustrated, and I literally heard a TPM podcast, and it spoke to me. Because I reacted that was my mode of life. I was like a nuclear ticking time bomb. It didn’t take much, and I would react and explode. I needed answers. I didn’t want to be this way. My wife had said it so many times. When I heard the TPM podcast, I listened to three or four, and I sent her a link. I knew it was the journey I needed to take. I jumped in, and as I walked through it, one little thing after another unfolded. They weren’t little they were huge events. They began to unfold like an onion. When an onion unfolds, the tears come, and there were a bunch of those. I circled The Alpha Reset in one of the first couple of podcasts. I said, “That’s where I need to be.” I heard you talk about it, I heard you talk about the life-changing events, men saying it’s like they were born again. That was for me. I circled it and said, I want that. I could give other explanations of what happened in it, but when I walked in on day one, I didn’t know what to expect. I was nervous, anxious, excited. I wanted to give everything I had in this journey and not leave without experiencing it. One of the volunteers, like what I’ve done now, pulled me to the side and said, “Brother, let the cockiness go. Take the mask off. It’s okay, we got you.” I settled, and I’ll always be grateful for that brother, for that man, for what he did that day.
Doug Holt 6:58
You can use his first name. Which one?
Scott 7:00
Michael. He knows who he is. If he’s listening, he knows exactly who it is. His nickname is the Tender Titan, and he showed that tenderness, and he helped me that day.
Doug Holt 7:15
An amazing man, just like yourself. I just want to give a shout-out to your wife for all that she’s done for you, for the movement. Her unsolicited post on LinkedIn that you shared with me what a beautiful thing, man.
Scott 7:26
She is an absolutely amazing woman. Before my walk in TPM, I used to say I didn’t deserve her, and I felt that. I believed that, because I didn’t feel like I was worthy. I looked at my mistakes, I looked at my failures, and I didn’t feel like I deserved her. I can’t tell you the times I’ve told her that, and she’s told me, “Yes, you do. You are worthy.” As I’ve walked through this journey, as I’ve shed the weight, the burdens, and the heartache, I’ve been able to look in the mirror and say, “I am worthy. I do deserve her.” By getting to that place, it’s made her feel safe. And Doug, I could talk about these things all day long.
Doug Holt 8:27
I know that you’ve lived them with experience. There’s nothing better than something that’s been battle-tested right in the trenches, has gone through it and that’s what’s so great. On the other side of it, we got a bunch of guys next door at the Ranch House getting ready to leave totally different men. One guy gave me a big hug and said, “Man, I’m about to turn 60, and this is the best 96 hours I’ve ever spent. The most transformational experience ever.” That sounds like hyperbole, right? I can imagine listening to someone say that, but you get the opportunity to hear it time and time again. You’ve been through the experience, and now you’ve walked alongside 10 men. We had five staff members there. You volunteered your time. You came in and walked these men out of the darkness.
Scott 9:18
Those men were blessed to have you here. I know you’re not looking for accolades, but to watch you operate, to watch you give your heart to these men, and to help each one of them walk through their journey it was a blessing for me just to watch you do what you love to do and what you’re really good at doing.
Doug Holt 9:41
I think they called me Care Bear at the end. Still trying to figure out if it’s an insult or not.
Scott 9:47
No, being part of that name it’s the love that just comes forth out of your heart. Think about the Care Bear show. It was very, very clear.
Doug Holt 9:57
I’m just teasing. Obviously, you get a bunch of men together in a room, we’re gonna be talking some trash. It’s a good time, man. When we look at this, one of the things you shared with the guys was deep. We brought in my wife for a woman’s point of view to ask us as men. After she left, you shared something I thought was really poignant about penetrating a woman.
Scott 10:22
I’m one of those men that, in his insecurity and fear, chased women as a young man. It was about sex. It was about the experience, and it always left me unfulfilled. Then I met the woman of my dreams, and we got married. We’ve been married 27 years now, and all she ever desired was connection. I didn’t really know how to connect, because I couldn’t connect with myself.
There was a masterclass that Tim shared back in May. It took me into a place where I realized two things: being fierce but walking in love. A man who walks in love without fierceness is neutered, and a man who walks in fierceness without love is a predator. I had to have some real, honest self-reflection, because there were times I was a predator, and it caused my wife heartache.
Through that reflection, I realized what my wife needs is for me to be vulnerable, open, and real. My Reset coach, Mark Smith, gave me this advice when I left: “Go home, look her in the eyes. That’s all you need to do. Let her feel you. Let her feel the change.” That was great advice.
Over the last year, I realized there were still things missing. I walked through that brotherhood class and realized I need to not only be loving, not only be fierce, but be both. I started trying to look at her soul and connect. So many times, I wanted sex for connection, but she needed connection for sex. I’ve learned in these last few months that I can just look at her, open myself up, and she melts into me.
Not to get too personal, but there have been times I’ve just been able to look at her, and she begins to get uncomfortable because the penetration starts there. Yes the penetration starts from my eyes. It starts from my heart. It starts when I begin to give. When she gets comfortable in that and receives, there have been times I’ve just said, “Go to the bedroom.” I don’t have to say anything else. When I get there, she’s waiting, she’s open, and she’s receptive, and we connect. It’s not an act. It’s true, because the penetration first started in me. I penetrated myself, and then I can give that to her. When she receives that on the spiritual and emotional side, the physical is just the walking out of the joining and connection of spirit, soul, and body. It is so different than what I’ve done all my life.
Doug Holt 13:36
None of us have been trained to do it right. We didn’t learn. I remember when my wife told me she didn’t feel safe with me. I’ve shared this story many times, but I was lost. “What do you mean you don’t feel safe? I’ve never hurt you, never hit you, never pushed you, never done anything.” How could you not feel safe? It’s that emotional safety. Men get to learn that’s a foundational principle. Women have to feel emotionally safe.
The other thing that won’t surprise a lot of guys listening, but might surprise women, is men don’t want just sex. They want connected sex. They want their woman to desire them. Women need to be seen, heard, and desired. When you tap into who you are as a man, when you’re secure with yourself that’s what security really is and you turn that attention and desire toward your wife and let her feel your energy, who you are game over. That’s the kind of penetration you’re talking about. And that leads to the other kind of penetration that both people like.
Scott 14:42
I missed that for so long in my marriage. I can remember times where I’d ask her, “Why are you not into this? Where’s the passion?” Well, there was no passion, because she didn’t feel safe. I was taking what I wanted, what I thought I needed. In all honesty, I was probably abusive to her heart, to her spirit. It’s taken time, and we have healed so much through my walk in TPM. I will forever be thankful for that day I opened Facebook, found the TPM podcast, and began my journey through TPM.
Doug Holt 15:26
I’m glad you did too, man. I got a chance to meet you, spend time with you, walk alongside these 10 beautiful men even on four hours of sleep.
Scott 15:35
You mentioned the four hours of sleep. When I left that day and I was traveling, trying to get here, there was every setback to keep me from getting here. Coach Neil early morning, it was 5:30 in the morning when I called him I said, “One flight has been canceled. This flight’s been postponed, delayed. What do I do?” Coach Neil said, “Just get here.” And so when I made that decision that morning, my wife was in limbo. Didn’t know what to do. Should she come back to the airport and get me? Once I made that decision, I called her and said, “I’m going. I don’t care how long it takes to get there. I don’t care what it takes.” She settled. She felt safe because I made a decision. I stood. I knew where I was going, and she was great with that. During that discussion that day, she told me, “I miss you already.” And I told her, “Understand, while I’m not physically with you, my heart is always with you. Feel me. While I might be 1500–2000 miles away, feel me. Take me with you. Where you go, I’m going to take you with me.” That connection is not going to change. I’d have never thought or spoken that way before, but it was true from my heart what I’ve learned, what I’ve become, who I’ve become as a man.
Doug Holt 16:58
What a beautiful thing to give to your wife, right? So many women because my wife coaches women I hear the other side of the story. So many of them are just lonely. They’re lonely because they’re waiting for their man to step up, and men just don’t know. We’re doing our best. We get vanilla sex, and for her, she may have sex just out of obligation. That doesn’t feel good for any guy. So then guys turn to masturbation, porn, and everything else, because it’s easier. They don’t have to deal with rejection or loss of connection. But when a couple can come together like you guys have, that’s a different story.
I also want to highlight that you were decisive. The scariest place for a woman to be is with her provider, her protector her man and that man is indecisive. That’s why so many times I hear men say, “As soon as I joined the program it could be a different program, but for obvious reasons I hear about TPM as soon as I joined, things started to shift.” That’s because you got out of the messy middle. She doesn’t want one foot on the dock and one foot on the boat. You’ve got to jump all in and go for it. That’s when results start to happen.
Scott 18:10
Look, there are days that I screw up. There are days I don’t make the right decision. There are days I’m not decisive. There are days she says something in the safety test, and I don’t do a good job and I fail it. But what I’ve learned is to step back, look at it, and say, “What’s going on?” If I messed up, I own it. If I didn’t mess up, what do I need to do to make her feel safe?
Doug Holt 18:42
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Scott 19:35
Y’all used to call it the shit test, and it went from that to the safety test. I never understood the terminology of the shit test. I thought, “What? Why?” When it was transitioned to the safety test, it was right at the end of my TAM. I heard it start getting called the safety test, and guys still call it both, but it began to click: she doesn’t feel safe. Okay. So now, most of the time not all the time, maybe over 50% of the time when she starts to not feel safe, I see that and I feel that. I think, “Okay, what decision can I make? What can I do to bring her in and make her feel safe?”
We had a little incident about two weeks ago. We were in the pool. We were talking, and work came up that’s where our biggest tension lies. We run our business together. She’s the CEO, I’m the COO. She started getting her feathers ruffled. I started getting mine. I stopped and started laughing. She looked at me like, “What are you laughing at?” I grabbed her, pulled her into me, and said, “It’s okay. This is all gonna be okay.” She just settled. She’s told me so many times that’s what she wanted, but I didn’t know how to do that.
I used to go into disagreement mode fight or flight. Fight mode brings heartache, flight mode brings heartache. But I’ve learned to bring her into that hug and say, “It’s okay.” And she just settled. The rest of the afternoon was phenomenal.
Doug Holt 21:24
Let’s just say it that way. I bet it was. You’re doing what all women want. And men we talked about this with the guys here, and Erin, my wife, spoke to them a lot of guys said, “Well, what happens when you get in an argument?” “Well, I just shut down. I walk away.” What a woman wants is for you to stand your ground, be solid, not be a jerk, and then pull her in and let her know you’re willing to weather the storm with her.
Scott 21:50
I learned it from Erin. I learned it from Erin doing the masterclass, Erin coming and sharing with the men at The Brotherhood retreat in Breckenridge. Listening to that from a woman’s perspective, who not only understands the woman’s side but also understands the male side what he needs and how to communicate it it’s phenomenal. When Erin walked in yesterday, you’re blessed, man. She understands both sides, and there’s such a strength, while still such a feminine energy in that process. It just shines on her.
Doug Holt 22:30
It does. She’s done a lot of work. I gotta give her props. She’s come a long way in her journey, as have I and as have you. I think that’s important for guys to understand this is a journey. Yes, right? This isn’t a one-and-done, fixed thing. You get to keep walking it, and it evolves. I always tell the guys: would you let the 21-year-old version of yourself run your business? No way. Would you let the 21-year-old version raise your kids? No way. So why are you letting that version of yourself be with your wife? A lot of us get stuck in that paradigm where we think, “Okay, nothing’s changed. I’ll just do the same things I did when I was dating.” And we expect that to work on this more mature, feminine, beautiful woman we’ve agreed to stay with for the rest of our lives.
Scott 23:19
My coach through the process, TAM, through The Brotherhood, Mark Hainsworth Mark would tell me, I was one of those guys that always wanted to get to the destination. Always looking two or three days ahead. He’d say, “Scott, slow down. Enjoy the journey. If it’s raining, dance in the rain. If it’s sunshine, enjoy the sunshine. But be where you’re at.”
Funny story one day, my wife and I were walking in the afternoon, and a south Louisiana thunderstorm popped up. We were half a mile from the house. It started lightning and raining, and she got nervous. She said, “We gotta go.” I said, “We’re gonna get wet.” She said, “What about the lightning?” I told her, “We’ll be okay. Let’s just walk.”
We got to the end of our driveway. My daughter-in-law and grandkids pulled up. They were laughing we were soaking wet. It was one of those “just be where you’re at” moments. It was a blessing for us. Our grandkids laughed at us, my daughter-in-law laughed at us, but they also got to see us be in the moment.
Doug Holt 24:26
That’s the key. What a lesson to pass on generationally. I can imagine those grandkids sitting there, and you’re basically saying, “Hey, it’s okay. Grandpa and Grandma, we got this. We’re in love, we’re walking together, and we’re enjoying it.” When so much of the world tells them it’s not safe, that’s a beautiful thing, my friend.
We go back to this idea of penetrating a woman, because I know some guys are listening to this going, “Okay, great, I get it. But what the heck are these two guys talking about?” Let’s dive a little bit further into some practical tips all these guys could do to help them start that process. I’ll pre-frame this: one of our coaches was working with another intimacy coach on his relationship, and the intimacy coach asked him, “If you’re gonna have sex on Friday, how much time do you need to be ready?” I think he said, “Thirty seconds,” right? Typical guy if it’s on, it’s on. It takes that long. It was a slow day. Then she turned to his partner, they’d been together 10 years or so, and asked her. She said, “Monday.”
So if you want to make love to your wife, in this case she needs five days of warming up. This idea of penetration the things you’re doing with your wife that you’ve learned, that a lot of men are learning you can keep that slow boil going consistently.
Scott 25:56
Absolutely, and it takes consistency on a daily basis. Actually, not daily it’s all throughout the day. It’s the little things of communicating. My wife used to text me “I love you” and she would say, “I wish you’d do that.” I’d respond, “Well, I’m working. I’ll talk to you when I get home.” Basically I was saying, “I don’t have time for you right now.”
Now I make sure before I leave in the morning she’ll get up, I’m usually in my home office, I’ve done my ARS, I’m sitting still. She used to come in and give me a kiss. About a month ago, I changed that practice. She’d come in, and I’d grab her, make her sit in my lap. I’d just hold her, embrace her, share my heart with her. That starts the connection for the day.
She used to initiate the kiss. Now, she not only wants the kiss, she wants the embrace. Then she gets up like a little girl, runs outside, does her exercise in our home gym. Throughout the day, it’s the little communication I see something that makes me think about her, I send her a picture or a video. It keeps her heart in the process, but even more than that, it keeps my heart in the process.
As men, that’s a huge change for me, but it took a lot of healing to get me there. I could do it from a “do” place, just walking through the actions, just checking off a checklist. I used to have alarms at 9:00, 1:00, and 4:00. I was just checking the checklist. A lot of times, I missed the real point.
As my heart has changed, as I’ve found myself more and more, I’ve realized the importance of the connection, the importance of that penetration. It’s become a being process.
Doug Holt 28:12
The thing you said that I really want to drive home all of it was great but what I really want to drive home is it’s just become who you are. Sometimes it takes a process to get there. We need steps. First time we drive a car, if it’s a stick shift, you’re figuring it out, running through your mental checklist. Now you just hop into a truck and go.
By reinforcing this time and time again, Scott, you’ve become this man. And your wife can tell. Women can tell. Guys, they can feel you a mile away maybe 2000 miles away. They’re very in tune, very connected. Don’t believe me? Just ask any woman. When she knows this is just who you are, that raises your level.
What a gift to give the woman in your life that you love. All men, when they marry a woman, want her to feel like a queen. But some guys get into this tit-for-tat: “I’ll do that for her when she does this for me.” That’s not leadership. That’s transaction. You might as well go get a prostitute at that point, because you’re just doing a transaction.
But when you forge a relationship with yourself that’s so strong, and then invite your woman in on that journey with you, you give her an amazing gift.
Scott 29:33
You mentioned all that without going into any detail of what takes place at a TAR and The Alpha Reset. There were some guys that saw very clearly this week how much the woman sees them, understands them, knows them, and what they really need. Yes, there were some eyes really opened to that this week.
Doug Holt 30:00
The way I often hear it described you come to The Alpha Reset and it’s like you’re wearing pink sunglasses, but you don’t know you’re wearing them. So the sky looks pink. Everything’s got a pink hue. And these guys would argue with you: “No, no, the sky is pink. Man, I can see it. It’s pink.” And then when their eyes get opened up during this intense experience, they go, “Oh crap, the sky is blue. And she’s been telling me it’s blue the whole time, but I’ve been fighting it.”
And there’s part of me, Scott, that thinks you can’t receive that feedback from your woman. It’s too close to you. You need to experience it, and then you can see and go, “Wait a minute, she’s been telling me this all along.”
Scott 30:45
Got it. My wife was hitting everything that my TAM coaches told me, Reset coaches told me, masterclasses… it’s like, okay, have they been interviewing my wife? Do they have cameras in my house? What’s going on?
Our wives our women know us. Yes, they have the ability to feel us. So many times my wife would tell me, “I am going to follow you. I am a reflection of you. The energy you give me is what I’m reciprocating.”
I heard Erin say something yesterday that was profound. As a young father, I made a lot of mistakes with my kids. I was almost a dictator type with them. It was my way or the highway, because that’s the way I was raised. I didn’t know any different. Erin was talking about how, as a mother, she’s a protector. And if she feels like she has to protect the kids from the father, she doesn’t feel safe. Not that there was verbal or physical abuse, but there was a harshness. A mother wants to nurture. She wants to pull her babies in, make their hearts tender and protected. I missed that.
I don’t want to call it a regret, because I can’t go back, but it is something I’m working on with my children, so they don’t make the same mistakes with their kids. I want them to walk through life as better fathers and better mothers than I ever was.
Doug Holt 32:41
That’s legacy, man. That’s what happens when you do the work. Most men don’t think about that unless they come to an event like this. We had a couple guys sitting there going, “Okay, I need to train my boys or my daughter to understand the stuff we teach, because then they won’t make the same mistakes.”
And then you break the legacy bonds. You’re probably doing the same thing your dad did. He’s probably doing the same thing his dad did. The difference is you decided to take the time to reflect and draw a line in the sand and go, “Nope. This ends with me.”
Scott 33:19
That’s where I got. My dad did the best he could. He did what he knew. My grandfather did the best he could. Both were great men. But when there are heartaches, I don’t want my children or my grandchildren to have to walk through them. I want them to be protected so that as they walk into life, they’re not wounded. They’re healed, strong, wise, open, loving, and fierce.
Doug Holt 33:50
I love that. What a legacy you’re leaving not only for your wife, not only for your children, but also for your grandchildren. That’s all you, man, doing the work. Thank you for deciding to step up. Not only doing the work so you can lead your family, but coming here to walk alongside 10 other men in this journey so they can go back and lead their families.
Someone talked about the ripple effect while we were here. Imagine that ripple effect generationally over the next 10, 20, 100 years just from you being a lighthouse. And we define lighthouses as someone who stands strong, never turns off, shows the way. That’s leadership, and that’s exactly what you’re doing, Scott.
Scott 34:38
There was a little selfishness in coming, of course, because knowing what happens… You asked me, I think it was day one, what did I need, or what did I desire to get from the event? Did I ask that question correctly?
Doug Holt 34:56
What do you want to get?
Scott 35:01
I told you I thought I knew what I wanted, thought I knew what I needed. But it hit me on day two it was connection. I was able to really connect with men, see men’s hearts from a different place, a different perspective. It was so eye-opening. It helped me to see me more as I saw others more.
As we shared, a couple of the brothers we served together I heard their hearts, saw their hearts, saw them serve, saw them give, saw their strengths. It wasn’t all rainbows and unicorns, but it was close. It was just a potpourri of light and life.
Doug Holt 35:50
It is, man. It always amazes me. We call it day zero the day the men arrive versus the last day, the day the men walk out. It’s literally like you transported a different person into the house where we do the work.
And you got to lead them. Connection is huge. Most men don’t have connection. We had a couple guys here say, “I don’t have that many male friends or at least not ones I can share certain parts of me with.” This is a judgment-free area. We had two litigators, two attorneys, sitting there. Always fun to see guys from such different walks of life coming together and realizing, “Hey, we’re all on this journey together. We’re all on this walk together.”
Scott 36:48
It was such a blessing. To see the men, the things they shared with one another the openness, the transparency, the transformation. To see men’s hearts grow together as one… just wow. Wow is all I can say.
Doug Holt 37:07
It is. Brother, thank you so much for what you do not only within the movement we call TPM, but also out in the world, doing what you do and showing up the way you do. I really appreciate it.
Scott 37:19
Thank you, Doug. Thank you for having me. Thank you for doing what y’all do on a daily basis, and thank you for being you.
Doug Holt 37:24
Thanks, man, appreciate that. Yes, sir. Gentlemen, as I always say at the end of an episode, in the moment of insight, take massive action. Scott has shared with you basically a blueprint. This is a blueprint on how to connect with your wife we call it penetrating her.
And what we mean it may sound odd if you’re listening to the audio version is actually getting into her heart. That’s really what we want. We want your woman’s heart to sing when she’s around you and when she’s away from you. We want her to long for you, and only you. It’s that deep desire. Men need that too.
The key is getting into her heart and staying there. When you can do that on a regular basis, with effortless actions because it becomes who you are life is so much better. That’s what I want for you.
And guys, if you want to find out more about The Alpha Reset Scott and I are here running on fumes a little bit, so apologies but go over to TPM and ask. What I encourage you to do is don’t believe me. Don’t believe me that The Alpha Reset is life-changing. Go ask anyone literally any of the hundreds of men that have been through that experience what they think. I think you’ll find they’ll say the exact same thing.
Gentlemen, always take action. We’ll see you next time The Powerful Man Show.
